Former Nigerian First Lady, Aisha Buhari, has revealed a deeply personal account of how her relationship with her late husband, former President Muhammadu Buhari, became strained after he allegedly believed rumours that she planned to harm him.
In a recent disclosure that has sparked national conversation, Aisha Buhari explained that internal gossip and palace intrigues within the Presidential Villa led to mistrust between her and the former president. According to her, the situation created emotional distance and caused her significant pain during his time in office.
She stated that the late president became withdrawn toward her after being influenced by individuals who spread false narratives. She described the experience as devastating, noting that despite being his wife, she felt isolated and unfairly judged due to unverified claims circulating around the seat of power.
Although she did not name those responsible for the alleged gossip, Aisha Buhari suggested that the environment around political power often breeds suspicion, rivalry, and manipulation. She noted that power attracts people with hidden agendas who sometimes thrive on sowing discord.
The former First Lady has in the past been vocal about governance issues and internal challenges within the ruling party, occasionally expressing views that differed from those of her husband’s political allies. Analysts believe her outspoken nature may have made her a target of political intrigue and misrepresentation.
Her revelation has reopened discussions about the emotional and psychological toll of leadership on families of public office holders. Political commentators argue that the pressures of office, combined with constant security concerns, can make leaders vulnerable to misinformation and paranoia.
Public reaction to Aisha Buhari’s account has been mixed but largely sympathetic. Many Nigerians expressed sadness over the breakdown of trust between the couple, describing the story as a reminder that power does not protect individuals from emotional suffering.
Women advocacy groups have also weighed in, highlighting the broader issue of how women close to power are often mischaracterised or scapegoated within political systems dominated by secrecy and rivalry.
Since the death of former President Buhari, there has been renewed reflection on his leadership style and personal life. Aisha Buhari’s account adds a human dimension to that reflection, offering insight into the private struggles that existed behind the public image of the presidency.
Observers say the revelation underscores the importance of transparency, trust, and emotional intelligence in leadership, not just in governance but within families affected by power.
As Nigerians continue to debate the legacy of the former president, many agree that Aisha Buhari’s experience highlights a painful truth about the cost of leadership and the unseen burdens borne by those closest to it.
